Alright. This is going to be extremley confusing. I'm in a relationship with this guy named *Tom*. We've been dating for 2 months. We only hold hands and cuddle. We don't make out or anything. Haven't even kissed. I kind of regard him as an older brother now.
Now there's this other guy, *mark*. we've been wanting to date for over 7 months, but couldn't because of different reasons. Now we want to go out together. We are fine to talk, cuddle, make out, and even do some physical stuff together. And I really care for him. Deeply.(BUT I HAVE NOT DONE ANY OF THIS WHILE I HAVE BEEN WITH *TOM*)
Now I recently, as in two days ago, met this guy named *Pat*. He's really sweet and fun to talk to, and he likes to treat me sweetly, kiss my hand, hug me, hold hands...but he knows i have a boyfriend. I feel so helpless. like it's not right to say no. He wants me to break with *tom and go with him, but I don't know...*mark* wants me to break with *tom* to go with him too..
I honestly don't know what to do.
I've gotten into a mess...
Please give me valuable advice....
I will rate high
Okay, first of all, on Miliko's advice: No. I'm sorry, but real life doesn't work like that. You're not going to see fireworks explode when you see the person you'll spend your life with. This isn't a movie.
Now, your relationship with Tom seems to have never started. I mean, if you never kissed, you were more best friends than boyfriend and girlfriend.
Pat, on the other hand, seems to be moving in far too fast. I'm not saying he's a bad guy, but don't jump into a relationship with him without waiting to see if he's really interested in you, or if he's just a "playa".
Mark seems to be the one you like the best, and if he's interested in you, well... there ya go. I hope everything works out for you.
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Thanks hun. ♥ Yeah..that's what I was thinking...about the whole "playa" thing. Thanks yet again.
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