I'm Suki. I love to see the first bloom of a wild rose, to smell the salt spray of an ocean breeze, to hear the laughter of little children at play. Oh no, wait - That's somebody else.
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alrighty, one of my good friends is...i guess what people would call a 'music elitist'? she's very unique and listens to old rock bands like the who and the beatles and stuff. she acts like she doesnt care what anyone thinks of her, but obviously she does or she would try so hard to be different, right? anyway, I on the other hand, am to her, the stereotypical prep. yeah, i get up and take an hour to get ready every morning, i shop at stores like AE and GAP, and i listen to pop music. whenever i give her a ride home or anything, she's always criticizing and making fun of the music that's playing, and if i go to the bathroom to fix my hair or makeup, she HAS to make a comment. i really do try so hard not to say anything to her about it. i tolerate her BLASTING the who and coldplay in my ears when i'm around her without saying anything, and i completely respect her political and religious opinions (WHICH ARE COMPLETELY OPPOSITE THAN MINE) and she doesnt. what do i do??? today i got mad and i blasted the music in the car and i kept making fun of her music, but now i feel bad. what do i do to tell her how i feel without coming off as a total b****??? (link)
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Talk to her about it. This sounds a lot like how my friends and I are - all from different stereotypical labels. Some of my good friends are into all that pop music shit, and I tolerate it. If you can tolerate her beliefs and lifestyle, she should be able to tolerate yours. Could she possibly be just joking with you? She probably doesn't realize you feel this way and be very straightforward. If she still doesn't listen, is she -really- worth having as a friend? It's something to think about.
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thanks! yeah, she is worth it i've known her since like 6th grade and she's a great friend. thanks for the advice!!! PS...pop isnt shit...lol jk, i get ya
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