I'm Suki. I love to see the first bloom of a wild rose, to smell the salt spray of an ocean breeze, to hear the laughter of little children at play. Oh no, wait - That's somebody else.
Gender: Female
Location: United States
AIM: WhyHelloXClarice
MSN: cardsforsorrow.cardsforpain@hotmail.com
Member Since: September 5, 2005
Answers: 274
Last Update: August 29, 2006
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BlackBatman
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Alright.
I'm usually a pretty good 'advice giver' but I'm stuck on this one.
I've been friends with this guy for about 4 years. There was a time in those four years that we.. well.. we liked eachother.
He asked me out.. but he dated my best friend, that's how we met, and I didn't want to hurt her in any way.
So, I said no.. and now.. he avoids me completely. Whenever I sign on to talk to him, he always makes up a bogus excuse.. like "I've got homework to do." (which he tells me EVERYDAY) and "I'm really tired.. I'll ttyl."
What am I supposed to do?! I mean.. I actually.. FEEL something for this guy.. HELP? (link)
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Talk to him and explain your side of the story. If he still continues to ignore you, take the hint that he doesn't want to be bothered and leave him alone. Maybe it will just take him a while to get over the rejection.
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Rating: 5
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He's had 2 years to get over it. It's not like he doesn't consider us friends though. Thanks.
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