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Q: I recently met this guy and we're now dating. We aren't exactly what you would call the cutest couple because well, some people don't believe we belong each other. Those some people being my friends.

I'm what you could call the preppy high school cheerleader that hangs out with other preppy cheerleaders/jocks.

He is...well I'm not sure what he is. When you look at him you think oh, just another punkish looking emo druggy kid. Which is what my friends think. But, he really isn't. He did voluntarily dye his hair black and has an eye brow and lip piercing. Along with another one that is below the belt that I haven't seen yet ;P.

But anyway, back to the point. He's a sXe(straightedge). If you don't know what that is, it means that he doesn't drink, doesn't do drugs and doesn't believe in casual sex.

I was recently involved in an accident. The accident should have never happened because we'll the driver and I were drinking. Fortunately, I'm still alive. And because of the accident I've decided not to drink anymore. (I met my bf after my accident).

My friends think that my bf is BS and that he's just kidding himself. And obviously, do not like him. His friends and I get along fine and he doesn't mind my friends, except for the fact that they don't like him. What should I do?
if your "friends" are really this shallow, then you might want to reconsider your friendship. having (or not having) a relationship based on what others expect is bad. so just do whatever you think is right. unfortunately, not many people can help you with this. this is one that you need to figure out on your own. just follow your heart(i know, its corny. but its true!) and do what you think is best...

It's not a question about ditching my friends or breaking up with my bf. I would never ditch my friends like that becasue they've always been there for me through middle school and high school.

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xiicarebareiix
i'm a crazy person, but in a good way. i'm always happy and I guess i'm a free spirit. i have an open mind and like trying new things. my friends come second only to my religion. i'm a total nerrrddd...but i love bein one, so it's ok ^^music, theatre, debate, and science olympiad are my life. i enjoy meeting new people and i'm pretty straightfoward. i dont like mind games, so i don't do it to other people. i think out loud alot, which can be a problem...if there's anything else you want to know about me, just IM me. i'm usually on unless i'm researching for one of the nerdy things mentioned above...

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