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Well I'm an honest, down to earth girl who like's to have fun! currently I'm attending college and hope to graduate as a nurse in four years. I love helping people with any issue, giving advice to people who really need it makes me feel good and nice inside. I guess i would say that i can more relate to love/relationship, education, and family issues since I've gone through allot. so if you have any problem or just a quick question dont hesitate I'm here to help!

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I recently met this guy and we're now dating. We aren't exactly what you would call the cutest couple because well, some people don't believe we belong each other. Those some people being my friends.

I'm what you could call the preppy high school cheerleader that hangs out with other preppy cheerleaders/jocks.

He is...well I'm not sure what he is. When you look at him you think oh, just another punkish looking emo druggy kid. Which is what my friends think. But, he really isn't. He did voluntarily dye his hair black and has an eye brow and lip piercing. Along with another one that is below the belt that I haven't seen yet ;P.

But anyway, back to the point. He's a sXe(straightedge). If you don't know what that is, it means that he doesn't drink, doesn't do drugs and doesn't believe in casual sex.

I was recently involved in an accident. The accident should have never happened because we'll the driver and I were drinking. Fortunately, I'm still alive. And because of the accident I've decided not to drink anymore. (I met my bf after my accident).

My friends think that my bf is BS and that he's just kidding himself. And obviously, do not like him. His friends and I get along fine and he doesn't mind my friends, except for the fact that they don't like him. What should I do?

well no offence but from the way you describe your friends they seem really snobby. i mean if they know you like him alot but just for the reason that he's what? a punky sort of guy thats why they dont like him? i mean maybe if he did something wrong or if he treated you wrong maybe then they would have the right to not like him but come on..you on the other hand seem like a true good hearted person to not let the image diffrence get to you. i really think you should some how make your friends understand that it hurts you that they dont like him. like seriously just be straight up and be like why the hell are you guys talking shit about my boyfriend like what kind of friends are you guys .. i mean im sure you dont do the same for them right?

any way thats the best advise i could give good luck with your boyfriend im sure hes a nice stand up guy if yo like him that much.

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(Rating: 5) thanks and yeah I know what you mean :(
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