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Last Update: January 2, 2006
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i really want a baby of my own but i'm only 14. is that bad? i want a baby by the time i am a sophmore in high school. i am very motherly and plenty mature enough, i babysit all the time.
i have a boy in mind that i would want to get me pregnant and i'm sure he would have sex with me, but i know he wouldnt want to be a father at 15 or 16. (he's a year older than me) he's not my boyfriend, but he used to be,
i love him with all my heart and i know he already wants to move closer to me for college but still, thats a couple years away.
my family loves him and his family and his family feels the same way. i'm sure my family would help me out as much as they could if i did get pregnant, but still....
help!! any advice at all would be wonderful.
is it bad that i want a baby so bad? should i like, seduce this guy and have sex with him? what if he denies having sex with me if i do have a baby? what if he stops loving me because of me having a child?
i'll rate good for good answers! (link)
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Your only giving high ratings to the people who tell you to go ahead and have a baby, because thats what you want to hear.
Im sorry hun> but i do get the total picture!!! You see I AM A MOM!! You do not have the slightest clue what your even talking about or what youre getting yourself into. Babysitting other peoples kids is NOT the same as having 1 of youre own! It doesnt matter if his parents love you or youre parents love him. That doesnt justify having a baby at 14!! You need to get in touch w/reality, and stop thinking about yourself. No teenage guy is gonna wanna plan to have a baby. Besides, youre body isnt fully developed yet. There could be complications during the delivery, and so many other things to consider! Im sorry if you think im being harsh, but you dont sound very mature to me!! Being mature is waiting until the time is right and 2 loving PARENTS can afford to have a baby. Like finishing high school and college, and getting jobs! Your not even old enough to work!! You cant expect your parents to raise YOUR kid. Thats not being very responsible or mature!
Planning to have a baby at 14, is just plain DUMB!! You literally need to "grow up"!!!
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Rating: 3
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i dont think you are getting the total picture either.
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