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okay well lately ive really had the urge to have a baby. im 16 and ive been watching kids and playing with my niece ( 2 1/2) and it really makes me want to have one. i dont want one for the sex or anything i just want it for the whole thing pregancy, birth baby everything and going around kids makes me want one more and more. what should i do? i dont live it a kind of neighbor hood where that is really acepted and my parents would kill me if i had a child but i want one so bad like you have no idea what do i do? its not like i can even control these urges they are there



its not like i want to i do but its like this urge that wont go away its all i cant think about. and watching my niece doesnt help it makes me want 1 of my own more.


i know i am emotional stable and if i did get pregnant my family would help me support this child but i know its not how i was raised and there arent alot of teen pregnancies in my more upscale neighborhood but i feel like i cant live without having a child

i also do babysit and work with children

You are sooo young, I doubt you are ready for a child! But if you ABSOLUTELY want this, you better be prepared for the consequences:
You will most likely drop out of school.
You will lose respect from people you care about.
You will always be broke.
The father of the baby might run once he knows you're pregnant, he might not be ready for that kind of commitment.
The LONGGG 9 months labor.

I mean, REALLY think about this! Good luck..

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