hey what's up? My name is tiffany and I'm 21. I love hanging out with friends and listening to music, music is pretty much my life. I have like a million cds. I am honest and a pretty understanding person and my friends and family all come to me for advice so feel free to ask me anything.
E-mail: stwain28@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Saratoga, New York
Age: 21
AIM: jaruleluva2486
Member Since: September 26, 2005
Answers: 59
Last Update: November 2, 2005
Visitors: 4019
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i'm a male, over 20, alone as hell.
i've never been able to get a girlfriend, i've tried and tried.
it seems like some crule cycle with me, meet a girl, ask her out a couple of times, start to like her and suspect she likes me too, try to be there for her and everything, try to move things up a notch, get the "you're such a good/nice/fabulous guy, i just wanna be friends" routine. Then i'll let go of how i feel as much as posible and try being "just friends", then she picks up the biggest jerk known to mankind and i get to sit across the table watching them make out (TORTURE, for those who care). then the arshole will proceed to cheat on her, she's crushed, i have to listen to all the bullshit and cheer her up, only to find her back with the butthead a week later, then a month later he'll cheat on her AGAIN...
by the third time this happens i simply fuck off, cause she's still won't go out with me and she keeps on going back to the total jerk and every month i have to be there for her.
WHAT THE FUCK, girls always tell me what a "NICE GUY" i am and the friendship crap, but why won't they go out with me.
I'm starting to accept that i'll die alone and bitter, and am starting to avoid woman totally.
I just don't know what to do, i'm really starting to lose it with woman.
I'm over 20 and i haven't even kissed a girl yet. WTF?!!!!!!!!!!!!
should i just kill myself now instead of becoming a full blown alcoholic?
should i try to like guy's more, and simply go gay?
at least i get alot of attention from gay guys trying to chat me up at bars, though im not gay. but women.......FUCK
i need advice please. (link)
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No, you should definitely not kill yourself or become a full blown alcoholic or become gay. If Girls always tell you that you're a nice guy then that's good. Stay that way, because sooner or later some girl is going to be looking for a nice guy instead of a bad guy and you will be that guy. Just keep looking for a girl and I am sure you will find her soon. Keep your head up. Good luck and I hope everything works out for you.
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Rating: 5
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thx, but jeez, im not going to wait around for women to get so screwed over by mr. badboy that they eventually prefer me, sad really.
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