i'm a male, over 20, alone as hell.
i've never been able to get a girlfriend, i've tried and tried.
it seems like some crule cycle with me, meet a girl, ask her out a couple of times, start to like her and suspect she likes me too, try to be there for her and everything, try to move things up a notch, get the "you're such a good/nice/fabulous guy, i just wanna be friends" routine. Then i'll let go of how i feel as much as posible and try being "just friends", then she picks up the biggest jerk known to mankind and i get to sit across the table watching them make out (TORTURE, for those who care). then the arshole will proceed to cheat on her, she's crushed, i have to listen to all the bullshit and cheer her up, only to find her back with the butthead a week later, then a month later he'll cheat on her AGAIN...
by the third time this happens i simply fuck off, cause she's still won't go out with me and she keeps on going back to the total jerk and every month i have to be there for her.
WHAT THE FUCK, girls always tell me what a "NICE GUY" i am and the friendship crap, but why won't they go out with me.
I'm starting to accept that i'll die alone and bitter, and am starting to avoid woman totally.
I just don't know what to do, i'm really starting to lose it with woman.
I'm over 20 and i haven't even kissed a girl yet. WTF?!!!!!!!!!!!!
should i just kill myself now instead of becoming a full blown alcoholic?
should i try to like guy's more, and simply go gay?
at least i get alot of attention from gay guys trying to chat me up at bars, though im not gay. but women.......FUCK
i need advice please.
I realize you've probably gotten all the advice you need, but here's another point of view.
I used to date a bad boy, who treated me like crap & really hurt me several times, but I kept going back to him - including ruining a relationship with a really amazing guy because of it.
However, every girl interested in guys has to have the Bad Boy phase. Some part of our wacked-out, illogical mindset thinks we can change him, tame him, whatever. We'll deny it, but it's true.
Deep down, we DO want a Prince Charming. We do want the really sweet guy that'll be there. We just probably don't know it yet.
There's going to be an amazing girl out there for you, and she'll love you as is.
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thx, but i not going to wait for some woman too get so screwed up by mr. badboy that she eventually prefers me. its sad.
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