hey what's up? My name is tiffany and I'm 21. I love hanging out with friends and listening to music, music is pretty much my life. I have like a million cds. I am honest and a pretty understanding person and my friends and family all come to me for advice so feel free to ask me anything.
E-mail: stwain28@hotmail.com Gender: Female Location: Saratoga, New York Age: 21 AIM: jaruleluva2486 Member Since: September 26, 2005 Answers: 59 Last Update: November 2, 2005 Visitors: 4023
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ok so i've been going out with this guy john for about 2-3 weeks now..and i really love him...but he's my bffs ex boyfriend...and shes really mad at me for going out with him..she gives me shit about it all the time like everyday at school...and like i told her how happy he makes me and how much i like him and stuff and she still like is weird and she talks about me behind my back to my other bffs(also hers too) i really want her to stop being mad at me b/c i dont want this to distroy our friendship (we've been friends like when we were born and on from there) she wont just except the fact that like her likes me and i like him now..AND SHE DUMPED HIM TOO thats makes me like really mad too...like she says she still likes him but shes the one who dumped him... what should i do...o and she said the only thing that would make her happy would be if i dumped him but if i dump him i'll be missrible for like a really really long time and she doesnt get it...
what should i do?? 13/f
sorry this is soo long...i rate all fives if u atleast try to help me!!!!! (link)
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I was almost in your situation except all I did was talk to my best friend's ex and now she is pissed at me and won't talk to me and she is extremely important to me so I am giving her like a week or so to cool down and then I am going to try calling her again and hopefully she will talk to me. But anyway, if your friend is really important to you I owuld dump him but just explain to him that she is really important to you and you guys have been friends since you were born and it really bothers her that you two are going out and you don't want to lose her as your friend. Maybe later on your friend might except it and hopefully he will understand and you two might go out again later on down the road. Anything can happen. But like I said if your friend really means alot to you I would dump him. I hope I helped at least a little. If you have any more questions you can leave one in my inbox.
Good luck.
Tiff
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