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hey what's up? My name is tiffany and I'm 21. I love hanging out with friends and listening to music, music is pretty much my life. I have like a million cds. I am honest and a pretty understanding person and my friends and family all come to me for advice so feel free to ask me anything.
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Gender: Female
Location: Saratoga, New York
Age: 21
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Member Since: September 26, 2005
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Last Update: November 2, 2005
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So I'm a 17 year old girl and my boyfriend is a wee bit older. He's 25.

We've been going out for about a month and he's a great guy to me - he buys everything (not just dinner, like he asks if there's anything I want in stores etc.), he opens doors, he always says the kindest things to me, and yes he's great in the bedroom.

But I've just been wondering lately if this is the best time for me to date someone his age. He's so perfect but it's kind of difficult when I get the weird looks from friends and classmates about dating an older guy. He hasn't met my friends yet and I don't even know if his friends know about me. The whole age thing is just kind of throwing me for a loop.

So, do you think I should keep pursuing this relationship with the chance of getting hurt or just let it go for now with such big differences?


P.S. Remember that I'm only a senior in high school, still dealing with stuff like homecoming and prom. He's already out in the working world...it's a tough choice... (link)
It seems like you two are really in love with each other. I think you should stay with him and introduce him to your friends and maybe he will introduce you to his friends and family. If they don't understand or make fun of you or say shit behind your back then they aren't your real friends. do what makes you happy. If you really love him like it seems you do then stay with him age shouldn't matter but if you want to end it because of what people say about the age difference then you will probably regret it because of how he treats you great and he loves and cares about you and obviously you feel the same about him. Good luck.


Rating: 5
Thanks, that was alot of help. You really got me to realize I shouldn't give up something that feels right in my heart. :)




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