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Q: okay, I am 21 and still a virgin. I have done other stuff just not had sex yet. The thing is I was almost raped by one of my ex boyfriends and I am kind of scared of guys now, not all but some of them. I feel really pathetice because I am still a virgin and I am 21. Plus my uncle has aids and that is another reason why I am scared. I don't have a bf right now but am looking for one. When I do find one and we have sex how can I make myself less scared to have sex? Is there anything I can do to calm myself down?
any help will be great, guys and girls
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Well...I for one am proud of you for keeping your virginity for so long. It's such a precious thing these days...you should be proud of it not embaressed. If you are scared, then maybe you arent ready. See, if you do get a boyfriend, then you will feel "ready" to have sex with him when you just feel comfortable. So when you do get the boyfriend, you'll know the time is right. Also, if you trust him when you have sex, then you wont be so scared. Dont worry about it...when you find the right guy, it will happen naturally! So dont do anything until you feel ready!
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thanks for the advice. I totally agree. I won't do anything until I feel ready.
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Hi, I'm Jen. I'm a 15 yr. old sophmore at my highschool. I'm just an all-around-average girl (okay, I'm not THAT average) I enjoy giving advice and asking it lol. I play the trombone in my school band and jazz lab, I sing in the chorus and in my church choir, I have a few friends but not a crapload...and I'm always there for my friends with advice! Sometimes its not always what they want to hear, but I always mean the best. So, ask me a question and I'd be glad to answer!
JEN!!
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