Just your average nice girl next door. Married the love of my life at 24, widowed at 29.
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okay, I am 21 and still a virgin. I have done other stuff just not had sex yet. The thing is I was almost raped by one of my ex boyfriends and I am kind of scared of guys now, not all but some of them. I feel really pathetice because I am still a virgin and I am 21. Plus my uncle has aids and that is another reason why I am scared. I don't have a bf right now but am looking for one. When I do find one and we have sex how can I make myself less scared to have sex? Is there anything I can do to calm myself down?
any help will be great, guys and girls (link)
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Don't feel pathetic at all! When you are in a good, healthy relationship it will be the right time. But always, always insist on having safe sex! Then you won't have to worry in case he turns out to be a jerk.
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thanks so much. that was great advice.
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