hi..my name is dana!....i heard about this site from a friend!...i love to give advise so i decided to get a profile!..i hope to give some great advice..and i probaly hav gone through some of the same things tht ya'll hav so i hope that my advice helps...
**DaNa**
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okay this is a big problem. My cousin Kim who is really important to me got married for the second time to this guy john. Well, before this my cousin and I were really close even though I live in Ny and she lives in Pa. we always wrote to each other and called each other and all that. I guess I should tell you that she has four kids, her two oldest are from her fist marriage and then the third child christopher is from this guy that she was dating before she married john and then she just had nicholas with john not too long ago. Anyway, I just found out that he has been beating on christopher and he has bruises all over him and he tells him to go to bed cause the boogey man is going to come get him and he is only 3. well my cousin's mom noticed the bruises and her husband went and talked to john about it and after that the kids stopped going over there to be babysat. Then I found out that john kicked my cousin down the stairs when she was pregnant with nicholas and he has hit her and thrown stuff at her. also they got in a car accident, my cousin, john, christopher and nicholas. and for some reason I think it was planned, cause john was driving. I don't know what to do. I am so worried about her and I have tried emailing her and writing her a letter and I haven't heard anything back yet. I can't call her cause I don't have her phone number and pretty much noone in my family does. I can't get a hold of her sister. I am so worried about her and all I think about is the next phone call I get will be saying she's dead or seriously injured because of him. HELP please. (link)
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okay.looks like you've got a serious problem on your hands!oki dokie ,so looks like youhave really gone througha lot trying to get to her ,well. first things first,do your parents know ,if they dont definatley tell them.
once your parents know (or already know)insist continuelly until you get the answer that you want ,demand that you go see your cousin and make sure that she is okay,or get a family member that lives close by your cousin to go and make sure that she and he kids are all okay...if that works and yet your cousin and her kids are still being abused,call the cops and tell your cousinto get a restraining order aginst John.......do the best you can to get a hold of your cousin..i know that you can do !
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dana
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yeah I know, tell me about it. Thanks so much for your advice. Yeah my parents know about it. That is a great idea, I know I need to go and see her and make sure that she is okay.
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