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Q: Don't get me wrong, I love my mom, but I don't think she feels the same way. See, I'm a 9th grader, and along with school, I also have a part-time job that ends at 6pm. Then when I get home I have to do homework, then my mom makes me take out the garbage, unload the dishwasher, fold laundry, clean my room, and dust. By the time I'm done it time for bed.
My mom doesn't treat me like Cinderella and make me do everything, but its sooo annoying when she's makes me do these things when she's off the whole day and she does NOTHING. How can I let her know I need a lighter load?
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WOW! I know how you feel, except my job I worked from after school til 11:30 at night. My mom would yell at me to mop the floor and such, she was a nut case.
Anyways, does she make you stop doing homework to do all these chores? Or does she make you do all that first and THEN do homework? Well if she just wants you to do the chores after homework, then don't do it.
Sometimes parents are sooo stubborn that comprimising with them is not an option so you just have to wear them down! Considering my schedule with school, my job, and my studies, my parents had absolutely NOTHING to ground me from and they realized it after I started refusing to do things for them. They were much more willing to comprimise after that. I still did chores but they were much less demanding.
I dunno if you have anything worth getting grounded from, but if you're as busy as you say, I'm sure you don't and I hope this works as well for you as it did for me.
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Thanks, I'll try what you said about the chores. And she lets me do homework first, then the chores, cuz she wants my grades to stay up.
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I've been building programs and web sites since I was 12, but don't think I'm an expert! I may be technology advanced but I'm far from G33k!
I'd like to say I have common sense, but that is for you to decide!
I'll do everything I can to help, and I am not afraid to tell anyone when I am not capable of answering your question; so you have no need to worry about me BSing my wisdom.
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Website: Gender: Female Location: Oklahoma Occupation: Computer Programmer and Beauty Advisor Age: 19 Member Since: June 14, 2005 Answers: 76 Last Update: September 28, 2005 Visitors: 6927
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