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ok im a virgin and i am 18 and my boyfreind / fiance is 22 and he has had 4 partners prior to me. also he has told me he is pretty big down there (normal sized condoms wont fit him) i havent actually seen it yet, but i am a virgin. i havent had any kind of contact in a sexual way at all and i want to have sex with him because we are so in love and getting married soon and all, but im afraid he will be too big and it will hurt alot. is there anything that the two of us can do to make our first time togheter (and my first time ever) more pleasurable and less painful for us? (link)
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Back the bus up missy. You obviously do not know a bullshiter when you see one. This guy has you wrapped around his finger so you will do anything for and with him. You might be in love but I am not so sure about him.
You are 18-years-old get your head on straight here. He is 22. While a few years younger his world mentally and physically is different from yours. At 18-years-old I am sorry you do not know beans about being married. An 18-year-old girl cannot handle marraige or making a life long commitment. Pull yourself together. you may love him but the whole Oh I'll marry you, fix this and that, I'll help if you get pregnant is BS right now.
I hate to say this but he wants sex more than you do. If you have no idea how to engage in it or to feel comfortable even and have questions, fears of pain etc DO NOT DO IT. If he sticks around maybe down the road. I have a feeling here that he wants sex and would bail or would bail if you didn't. Do not do it just to hang on to a guy.
Put it to you this way when you look back on it you might go I wished I did this with someone else than him. Also, another thing if they promise to stay with you if you got knocked up etc. Tell that to my 17-year-old cousin who now has a baby and nobody helping here. Be wise to the lies all guys tell. Don't have sex to please him. YOU ARE NOT READY AND WE CAN TELL.
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you were really straight forward and i liked that. i am not sure what i am going to do, but i hope things like you said dont happen. thanks for your words, they will stick in my head!
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