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I'm 19, just graduated from high school. I have a boyfriend, his name is Josh, and I love him. I am pretty good at giving advice. I'm just not ever any good at taking my own advice. haha Always have been. I can help everyone else except for myself.

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Ok, so this guy that I am in love with and yes I am positive it is love, well he is being a total jerk about it. He doesn't want to open up and share emotions, he never wants to be around me anymore, he has girls as friends, but tries to like hint that they are more... I'm not sure what he problem is, he has said "I love you too" or "I love you" to me before but lately we have been bickering because of stress on both parts and its just dramatic and we both hate it... I try to tell him how I feel, but he thinks that its stupid infatuation and virgin attachment (he was my first). I think else wise because of the way I am... its hard to express in words how it is. He makes me heart flutter fast but slow, Im thinking nonstop about him, I've stuck up for him with friends and family... Ive battled my best friend over him and now no longer am talking to her. Im starting to think he is not worth it, but I cant fight the feeling of how much I care for him. It keeps bringing me back to him. What should I do?? Just forget him and move on? Crack down and be a hardbutt and make him open up? Oh and forgot to mention, he is moving on Saturday, 3 1/2 hours away... my mother knows this and says its a challenge but one we can tackle if I love him.. so she is with me on this. Frankly my whole family is, they adore him. I'll rate high!!! I'm desperate for help and please I want some help from people with at least some expierence in this..

This guy... he sounds like a jerk... and it sounds like he's trying to get rid of you, in little ways... by making you mad and stuff like that. And virgin attachment? What a dick. I'm sorry, but geez. I'd say drop him. Let him hurt for a little bit. Because trust me, it will... he'll realize what an idiot was. And if he really loves you... he'll come back to you.

good luck.

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(Rating: 5) Well thank you, at least someone freaking sees my point!! I mean I've been through hell with him and finally I'm starting to get people who understand me.. Thank you! It's appreciated!
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