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I have a friend who is verbally and physically abusive. She called me and my other friend a**holes for stupid reasons, and she just us both (hard!). She's been doing little things like that forever, like calling me an idiot or stupid, and maybe hitting me a few times. I could deal with that, but now she's gone way too far. I know that's not how a friend is supposed to act. She doesn't seem to know that her behavior is mean and immature.
I'm avoiding her, but I know I can't do that forever. What should I do?
Just tell her she is hurting you and she isn't acting like a friend is supposed to act. If she really cares about you as a friend then she might stop. She is probably just doing it because she thinks she can get away with it. If not do your best to stay away from her> If it's completely unavoidable then tell a parent, a counselor, SOMEONE who can stop her.
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