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First i would like to state i am a m/13
Amd i am terribly sorry to everyone who has been answering my ?s. That i keep talking about my best friend who i have a major crush on and she knows it. Anyways...

Ok my best friend know i like her and when we talk about the boys she likes i sometimes ask her "but what are looking for in a guy" she tells me now somtime in the the conversation she always says seriously "Well maybe one day i will just go out w/ you"(something along those lines anyways) Now is she hinting something to me(she has clearly satated she has no crushy feelings for me. so what does this mean.

Is she lying to me when she says she doesnt like me
Does she want to go out w/ me
If she does want to go out w/ me how do i ask her

This is my most important ? yet

And i would just like to say thanks truely and deeply for all the people who have/will help/helped me out.

Much love, thanks, and prayers for you all

Carpe Diem

Next time your talking about guys and she says something along those lines you just ask "Will you go out with me?" if she says no you can stop wandering. Honestly though if she says she has no crushy feelings for you and is saying taht she might go out with you one day she is playing you. Its not nice but alot of girls do it they keep you wainting and wandering so that just incase they want a bf your an obviouse choice ts about knowing what you can have and knowing this is kind of like a boost to your confidece. I know you may be think that your firned wouldnt do that but In plain truth that just might be the case girls need to know they have options.

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