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I broke up with this guy a week ago but we still talk when i see him at his work. and i texted him today n he didnt text me back so i called and i asked if he was mad. and he said he wasnt and it was cool but he asked to call me back in 7mins cause he was almost home from work... everytime i called him, he was always on his way home from work. he gets off work at 9. and it was at 9:45 when i called him and he lives about half n hour away. he hasnt called back yet and its been over 10 mins. is he lyin to me? (link)
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To anyone else and the eyes of an adult it appears you have blown it. You are too eager here and are driving him bonkers with calls and always just being there physically or by phone, e-mail, text-message. If you want to piss someone off and make them not like you that is how to achieve it.
You should not have called him back so many times as it's unattractive and being seen as a pest. No wonder he does not want to call you. If he gets off of work at 9 p.m. and lives 30 minutes away and has to walk from a bustop to home or a bus was late in traffic 9:45 is reasonable for an arrival. Count your lucky stars if he does call you back.
Guys and or girls for that matter do not like clingy people or those who go overboard in trying to snag them as their mate. This guy sees you as a nuisance and the stalker type and wants not to be involved with you. His problem is his signals of not being interested and not calling are not being picked up by you.
Frankly, he's not interested in you and does not want to come out and be blunt about the calls and text messages, e-mails etc to hurt you but you can bet the "Oh it's okay" really means "F--k off, don't call me you are driving me nuts." that some people would say. He has more compassion and tact then to do it that way. But yes, move on as he's not going to go for you.
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Rating: 5
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haha would of been close but he doesnt ride the bus we live in a very rural place. we dont have bus stops. n he asked me out n shit n i broke up with him so i tried to fix things cause he got hurt.
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