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Hey- i'm Emily. I love my friends and most ask for my help with various situations... so I guess i'm good at giving advice lol. I am a freshman, i love the band, and i am somewhat outgoing. Ask me anything and i'll do my best to help. :)

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My boyfriend, Justin, and I, went to a rodeo tonight. This one girl, Destanie, was there. She likes him. Alot. And she doesn't like me at all (for what reason I don't know.) Anyways, she came up and was all over Justin and he was backing off and stuff and she pulled him aside and started telling him how I was cheating on my and walking down the hall with some guy holding his hand and stuff. Which is total BS! I would never cheat on him, I love him so much. Anyhow though, he came up and asked me about it. I blew up (for one reason or the other, I was just pissed because I'm sick of her telling him this stuff, and she's told him other lies like that recently.) He was really pissed off for me blowing up at him, which I can see because it might have came off like something WAS up. But I was just getting tired of all of it. Anyways, we made up I guess, but how can I let him know that I really would never cheat on him? I don't want him getting tired of Destanie saying stuff and break up with me, because I love him more than anything. I can't confront Destanie because she'd kick my butt. I rate high! Thanks so much.

Well you love him and all so spend more time with him. I'm not saying on the clock 24-7 but just be with him long enough to show him that you couldnt fit another guy in.
Tell him that there is no other guy (CALMLY lol) and tell him not to trust destanie. She sounds like she is just bad news. Try (if you can) to keep her away from justin. If she pulls him aside try to follow along or just say, anything you wanna tell him you can tell me. If she starts to beat you up Justin would probably stop her.
Just tell him you like him to much to cheat on him. Tell him you would never think of doing that.
I'm sorry so long, but I hope I helped some!!!
*emster*

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(Rating: 5) Thank you so much, your advice really did help. Him and I talked it all out last night and he said she wasn't anything and he was done listening to her. She told him last night at the rodeo that she wasn't gonna talk at him or look at him or anything and he said "Well good then!" So I hope it's all okay now. Thanks sooooo much again!
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