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My boyfriend has just moved into a house he shares with a group of friends, including one girl he has a bit of a history with. I don't particularly get along with this girl because she still harbours feelings for my boyfriend. Till now things have been a bit akward between me and this girl, but there haven't been any real outbursts. A few days ago though, I visited this house and when I went upstairs this girl hid my shoes. This is obviously ridiculously petty and bitchy of her, but I don't know how I should deal with it. I'd confront her, but I assume she'd just deny it and I don't want to create a lot of tension in their house. Part of me thinks I should just take the moral highground and absolutely ignore it, but I feel akward going back there wondering if she's going to do something similar. I guess my question is, does it sound like it's worth confronting her and potentially creating a drama about, or should I just leave it be? (link)
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your right it does sound petty, and you have every right to want to bitch slap her, but on the other and less violent hand, have you ever heard the saying kill em with kindness. strangely it really works. shell get bored with no response and realise you arnt even there the see her or react to her childish ways, you are there to see your man. and if he sees you retailating to childish behavior he may want to see less of you in that house, so just enjoy your mans company, and ignore her
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I think you're right, she is probably just trying to get a rise out of me and I shouldn't give her the satisfaction. Thanks for your thoughts.
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