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Hey!
A girl, who I thought was my best friend, just told me that she got drunk with this other girl who I dont like. I am totally against drinking and drugs and fooling around. This other girl who I dont like is named Brooke. Brooke and I used to be really good friends, but whenever Brooke hangs out with different people, besides me and Anne(the girl who got drunk,My "bestfriend") she is like a totally different person. Brooke has guys over and fools around, she steals make up and other items from stores. She cuses alot too. So does Anne. I also dont like cussing. The thing is, I still want to be friends with Anne for sure, but not so much Brooke, because we are all sophmores, but This has been going on with Brooke since the eighth grade. She is only my friend, and nice to me when it is convienent for her. Now Anne and I have known eachother for a long time, but then we were not friends during middle school. Anne is really a nice girl, but I dont like it that she likes to drink. And I am also concerned about what I tell my "bestfriend" because she could go and tell it to Brooke. What should I do about this? Im soo confused. I want to be friends with them both, but Im soo lost. I will NOT start to drink or fool around with guys. And I do not want to get into something that I cant get my self out of. I am totally happy with my boyfriend of over a year and 7months, and he does not drink or cuss either. we dont "fool around" either. What should I do?
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-Kelsey-
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The thing is if Anne wants to get wrecked and loaded every single night there is not a damn thing you can do to stop her with that or with drugs. You can talk all you want and get resented in the process. Instead, talk to a trusted adult, say I am concerned for Anne as I see her getting wasted all the time. etc. That may help force adult intervention. You however, cannot change addicts or those in over their heads like that.Regardless of who tries to help she either learns easily or learns harder.
Do you really want to be her friend or is this out of needing a friend period? If she does not want to be around you when it counts than forget it as it is too much effort on something one sided. If you want to be her friend tell her not to drink or be angry around you as that is not the person you want to be friends with and or friends with those who only want to be around when they want something. Put your foot down and leave it there.
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Rating: 5
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thank you soo much! :) You're sooo right! :)
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