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okay im 16 and just got my bellybutton pierced like last week. theres is this girl bianca and i basicly coacher her into the school and like made her cool and hot and all of that sort of stuff. and like she has been bragging that she got her belly ring when she was in summer of 8th grade and its like.. okay get over it. but she is turing into a totall bitch about it and i really dont want to be friends with a girl like that. do you guys think its okay to get your bellybutton pierced at 13/14. i tried telling her to stop bragging and no one cares because no one really does except for her, is there any way to get some sence into her to make her stop being annoying? (link)
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It sounds as though the girl has nothing really to
talk about at all with any of you or in common. Why does this topic keep coming up with her? Odds are
she is talking about it to you because she knows it is the only thing you have in common or to keep
a group of friends who are turning out to be annoyed.
What should you do? Trest her with respect and tact and say, "You told me several times let's talk about something else." That said in front of everyone will get her to stop and focus on other stuff and maybe a whispered "Be yourself and listen for a good opportunity. You talk a little too much." will get it across.
As far as her being a bitch--annoying yes--bitch no she does not have the best in social or communication skills and probably has no clue she is annoying you--none--this is normal behavior to her. Bragging all that will die when you tactfully pull her aside and explain how this looks to everyone.
It is not your job to knock sense into anyone. Life if you deserve it will reach out and bite you or kick your ass itself. Do not worry there--except that maybe the kick in the butt is
designed for you both to see something the other needs.
Bellybutton rings are nice on cute women who are
20-30. I kind of feel swqueamish with kids. They hurt like hell from what I heard going in and perhaps in a few years they will be out of fashion. Get them if you want but ask yourself was this worth the pain? Am I any older or cooler? and you will know if it is right for you.
Getting something like this is requires adult though and maturity on your part. It should never be viewed
as something easy as brushing your teeth. It will
hurt and in the end will anyone care? I mean comeon girls do this to get someone to care--a guy--so if he does not and others do not what's the use in getting it done?
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thnx but the sad thing is shes my age, and i liked her before this.
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