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Hi I'm Ashley. I'm 18 years old and married to the greatest guy in the world. I'm 7 months pregnant and excited to what my future has to bring. I graduated high school this past spring with the class of 2005. I love helping people and trying to give them the best advice possible. I have had a lot of life experiences, not saying that all have been bad although there has been a share of them. I'm open & ready to answer any question asked and don't mind doing further research to better my answers. Feel free to ask anything, I'll do what I can to help. =]

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I'm a girl. There's this boy, we hang out. He likes me, I'm 98% sure. He was hurt during and after his last relationship for a really long time. While we hang out and cuddle and just be together we talk and he told me that he see's a future with me and it scares him. I didn't necessarily take this as a bad thing. However, the more I think about it, the more I wonder. What are all of your opinions on this?

Second part.
Also, he doesn't seem too ready to date any time soon. Then there's this guy, who I really really used to dig when I was like 15. I'm 18, now. We're friends, but I think he wants to try something more. I like this other guy, in the above paragraph, however, I don't know if I should wait for him, or see if I like this friend of mine. My gut feelings are telling me that I'm young, and should play out both fields. What are your opinions?

K Thanks.

True that you are young, but don't play the fields too much. The friend of yours in the first paragraph is scared to have a relationship because he's afraid of getting hurt again. He's let you know that he sees a future with you, so if you go and try to see this other friend of yours he's going to be hurt. The only thing you can do is figure out which one you wanna be with more. If you still can't figure out which one you like more... sit down with friend #1 and find out when he's planning on moving on and starting a relationship with you. If he doesn't know or it's too long to wait on someone who you don't think you'll be with for awhile then just let him know that you can't put your life on hold for something that isn't going to be there for a long time. Then talk to friend #2 and see what can spark from that one. =] I hope ya get everything worked out. Good Luck!

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(Rating: 5) Thanks. That was good advice. :)
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