Gender:
FemaleLocation:
USAOccupation:
StudentAge:
15Member Since:
June 27, 2005Answers:
269Last Update:
December 4, 2005Visitors:
18802Favorite Columnists
classicbetty
Main Categories:
Friendship
Love Life
Fashion and Styles
View All
about

advice
I am 15 year old male, gay, and attending High School. In the past year, I've come to terms with who I am and I've come out to 2 of my friends. My huge problem is that nobody my age comes out of the closet so I am going to be single for a while. I am despretely lonely and wanting someone to sweep me off my feet. I just feel so deprest and want to have a boyfriend like all the other straight couples have where you love each other and understand each other and comfort one another. My problem is that there is this guy that I like but he has no clue I exist. I think that he is gay. The signs are that he is in tennis, went to tennis camp and is trying out for the tennis team, is in drama class, his eyebrows look plucked, he looks well made up and his hair is curly and conditioned, he is fit, and all his friends are strangely attractive. I also see the way he looks at guys and can kinda tell. I really want to become friends with him so that I can be around him and be happy and possibly get him to come out to me and maybe even become my boyfriend but I don't know how to go up to him and become his friend. It's like I can't just walk up to him and say hey what's up because we don't know each other so I was thinking of bringing up tennis because I've started taking lessons and stuff and I'm going to try out for the team just so I can be there with him and possibly go to his camp and get closer to him. I just don't know how to become his friend or how to talk to him. What should I do?
Why would you think a guy is gay because he plays tennis?? I have lots of straight guy friends who play tennis. And look at Andy Roddick, Roger Federer, Andre Agassi. Are any of them gay? No. I don't know how you can associate tennis with being gay.
X0C0URT
(Rating: 1) Your making a statement not answering a question