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Q: I'm 14/f.

I'm a freshman and I like a sophomore. Well, we're in a club together and we had a carwash today and it was a lot of fun. My crush and I started talking and it was really cool. Well, my friend filled up a bucket with water and dumped it over my head. I was already soaked enough but after that I was WET. My crush asked me why I didn't go change and I told him I didn't have anything to change into so he offered me his shirt. Well, that was really sweet of him but he then he started messing with me, like, I got him a little wet and he threatened to hit my butt and after that he threw a wet washcloth at me (not directly and not hard, just so I would get a little bit wet) and then he started smiling at me. Well, I also found out he has a girlfriend so what's the deal? I'm not trying to break them up, all I want to be is friends with him right now, but does he like me?
Having a girlfriend doesn't stop guys from finding other girls attractive and flirting. They ALL do it, and don't consider it cheating.. although the girlfriends usually do. xP It definitley sounds like he's interested; he probably wishes he had met you before he had a girlfriend. But right now there's really nothing you can do until they break up. Just keep being friends with him and see what happens. It's up to him what will progress between you two.

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