Member Since: August 29, 2005
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Last Update: September 21, 2005
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ok, i've been dating this guy for 2 months. and at first, i loved everything about him... and now i guess... im just losing interest. i've tried pushing him away slowly... cut down on hangin out... and everything... it just doesnt seem to work. i was planning on pushing him away, and stop hangin out as much, and then pull the... im confused and i dont know what i want thing. i mean... i do sorta like him still... but hes talking about marriage... im 16, and im not interested in that yet. i just wanna live my life. im not ready for a serious relationship, i thought i was, but im not. i do want to break things off, because with the way i feel, its just not going to work out... yet... how do i tell him i need a break... i dont want to shut him out of my life or anything... i just dont wanna be labeled as his... gf... i just wanna be friends, and hang out from time to time, and im not sure... just not couple things. how do i break things of temporarly with out breaking his heart, and shutting him out of my life? (link)
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The best thing is BE HONEST. Arrange to meet with him and tell him exactly how you feel. Trust me, its not fair on the other person to give them lame excuses that aren't true. Thats happened to me before and its very obvious that its a lie. If you dont want to be with someone its a lot easier on the person you are dumping if you tell them the truth. At least that way they wont be thinking that you are lieing, and he can then move on with his life.
If your heart's not in it, there is no point in faking what you don't feel. I know its hard but it will be even harder if you lie your way out of it or just leave it up in the air.
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thank you so much, i broke up with him a couple nights ago. i do still like him, but i need to get my life in order first, and thats exactly what i told him.
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