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Q: so i have a low confindence level.its like am afraid of popular kids in my school and i kind of want to be one .but i dont think i belong with tem .i like to watch them and know wats going on in their lives.what is wrong here.
What's wrong is I think you are adoring people because they are popular, but I could have read your question wrong. Trust me, there's more drama going on in that clique than you probably want.

Nothing is wrong with wanting to be liked tho, but I think it is best to find people that will like you for you and vice versa. You'll have more fun and forget about your low confidence. Great friends tend to make you feel better about yourself anyways.

If you really want to make friends with the popular people at your school, it couldn't hurt to try. You might hit it off, if you don't well then it wasn't meant to be.

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