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I made out with my boyfriend last night and my older brother walked in on us (we were in my room with the door locked but my bro just has to stick a penny in the door too twist it.. if you know how those work yeah)... He came in and got really really pissed and started yelling at my bf (which made him leave), My brother had me in tears, he acted like he was my parents he was yelling at me and everything... I mean all we were doing was making out just sitting there not even laying down or anything. Im 14 and hes 17 but he was sooooooo mean and he told my parents so now im grounded for a frigin MONTH!!! I was so pissed at my brother and he said he didnt want me too turn into a slut (wth all we did was makeout) So this morning he was in the living room and he told me my bf called and my bro told him he wasnt allowed to call my house anymore... WHY IS he taking this so out of proportion.. I started crying again so i told him i hated him and that i wished he would die and burn in hell... :( That got me grounded for even longer but i didnt mean it :( Ive tried apologizing and he wont listen too me. Does anybody know how i could apologize too him and handle this whole situation all together because if not i could lose my BF.. because hes not allowed over here and my parents say i cant see him :(. (link)
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thats how older brothers act.. they dont want their 'little' sister to grow all up. i would talk to him. tell him thank you for caring about you, and you know your limits. you will not go farther then you want.. and your boyfriend knows that as well. then talk to your parents. tell them that you are responsible, and that you know your limits. you are 14, and you are growing up. and that you guys were only making out. tell them that you werent forced to do it .. and you believe that that was the right time for it to happen.
and tell them that you accept your punishment, but you dont think its very fair that you cant see him when you are un-grounded.
you are growing up, and they need to accept this.. maybe you can act really responible around the house, so they can see you are growing up.
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