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I've been dancing since i was two-years-old! Dance is really my main gig- competitions are sooo exciting!... i have a twin sis and little brother. I am into sports like softball, swimming, tennis, and that kinda thing! After college i wanna become an occupational therapist or a psychiatrist... i like dealing with other peoples drama! so try me... i'll try to help you out 'cuz "IHaveHelp!"
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my BEST FRIEND has been for me since 2nd grade, and i dont want anything to come between us.

last year i went out with a guy, umm lou..sure...and he broke up with me...but ive always been crushing on him since. just crushing...i still flirt with others and stuff, but my best friend..uhh..zoe....nos that i "like" him.
lately shes been flirting with lou alot, and she came out and told me she likes him more than a friend. i was really upset, but she promised me that she wouldnt hurt me by going out with him or anything.
so now she told LOU that she liked him, and im thinking that they are soon going to go out, cuz my other friend came up to me and was like, "do you hate zoe now??" and im like why and their like "oops nvm" and so i think they're gonna go out or already are.
so what im asking is should i just let them go and break my heart..but still have my friend and try to forget about it-or let this situation hurt my friendship and make her realize how bad she really hurt me.
ill rate high nomatter what cuz this is longish...thnx

i totally understand what your going through- i think that I wouldnt be mad if that was happening to me because- hey it's just a guy. but if you are -so are a lot of other people- thats fine! You should be- but not just at her, she was probably looking out for you by lying,- you should try to be kinda supportive so she feels comftorable talking to you about it b/c she can't control how she feels and it proably is just a bad timing thing... i would just put your happy face on for now- i mean- how long could it last- friends last WAY longer than boyfriends- they're just guys!

Good Luck hun

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(Rating: 5) thnx...ur right
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