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Q: well there is this really sweet guy that i've had a crush one for 3 years since 5th grade(i'm in 7th this year and so is he)last year he went out with one of my friends so i got over him.well he's single this year and i have 2 classes with him!!! he sits behind me in both of them,we have given each other nick names,he's always flirting with me and flicking stuff at me and touches my arm alot,he says funny things that make me laugh!! i think he likes me but he gave my friend a note saying that he liked her!!! he's always touching me and making me laugh and copying what i say and constantly smiling at me!! does he like like me or not??? i need help because i like him so much!!!! i'll rate high for any real answer!!!!!
I'll apologize for percieved harshness:

To get down to business... If he liked you, who do you think he'd be writing those notes to? If he liked you, who do you think he'd be trying to date? (YOU. not your friends.) He's flirting with you, sure.. but he's probably not serious about it. If he was, he'd be chasing after/writing to you.

He doesn't like you if he's writing love notes to your friends. It just doesn't work that way.

Or maybe he's the chosen one who is going to change all of that.

Either way, don't waste any more time on a guy who only notices your friends. Three years.. gosh. Get over him, for real this time. I don't care what nicknames he calls you, or what he flicks at you. Get over him.

thanx i guess!!!!

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TheCynic
Love hurts. That's why I'm here to explain to you exactly what your significant other (or hopefully significant other) means, truthfully and unfortunately painfully.

In other words, I'm not going to tell you what you want to hear, unless I really believe it could happen.

If you don't believe me, well, I can give you proof. My way of thinking worked for me and my wonderful boyfriend of three years (I love you Matt!)

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