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Q: Okay, I have this friend, Charles, and he is kinda my exboyfriend I guess. But since the day I met him and to this very second, he has changed a lot. He used to be caring and sweet. Now he's mean and an asshole. I don't know like what to do because he blames it on me saying I'm the asshole. So today I told him we should pretend we don't know each other for awhile and he's all like "well I know what's gonna happen, it'll be awkward to talk and we'll drift apart." Which personally is what I wanted because I want my old life back. And I told him that, and I also told him that I don't want him talking to my friends becuase he would have never known them if it wasn't for me. I know it sounds selfish, but he talks about me to them everyday and says all this stuff, which mostly isn't true, then they all like ask me questions. I'm like arghh!! Like I'm totally sick of it and I need help because now he's all like, "no that ridiculus, I'm not gonna stop talking to them." And tonight all of my friends got into a fight. I just stopped crying. I'm tired of it. I've had like major breakdowns where i just have to sit or else I'll kill someone. It's horrible. What should I do? Please help.



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♥ Broken, Lost,and Confused but not giving up.
This guy sounds like a real jerk. First off get away from him you can actually have the fone company block a number from being able to reach your house so report his number. If he starts coming to your house threaten to call the police. If he is honestly driving you so mad that you want to kill someone maybe you could get a restraining order but thats only nessacary if he like REALLLLY invading your personal life or threating you. Call your friends up one by one and say sorry even though you don't think it's your fault. Tell them you really don't like charles and your doing your best to get away from him. Tell her I just want you to know that I wouldn't lie to you what charles says isn't true. Make up with everyone of your friends and hopefully they'll see your point. Maybe every night before bed have some herb tea and just relax get rid of the stress because one guy isn't worth it. I hope this helps
Kelli

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