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Hey- i'm Emily. I love my friends and most ask for my help with various situations... so I guess i'm good at giving advice lol. I am a freshman, i love the band, and i am somewhat outgoing. Ask me anything and i'll do my best to help. :)

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My life really sucks. The guy i like has this really popular and pretty girlfriend. All the people at school make fun of me. I do not have alot of friends. My family doesn't seem like they care for me too much. I even sometimes think of suicide.

At school all of the people make fun of me. I am no dork but people make fun of me the way i dress and just plain make fun of me. On my school lacrosse team people always make fun of me. Not to brag but i am probably the best person on the team and yet there are still people making fun of me of the things i do. On my soccer team some of the girls make fun of me too. I do not have alot of friends either. My dad always bothers me to have someone come over and he asks me the number of people i called and its only about 3 because i really don't have alot of friends to call. My family is always yelling at me to. I try to be nice but then my sister makes some smart remark and then my parents expect me to be nice to her. And they think she is like the perfect angel child that does everything right. My sister even sometimes makes fun of me by saying i have no friends. Suicide is also something i think about and life is something i want to take away because it really sucks. Please add some advice to this column. It would really help. Even if it is just about one thing. Please help.

Almost evryone I know has been picked on. The key to it is: ignore it. I know, i know, you may think tht is impossible but its really not. Dont look at them, dont say anything back, just keep on walking or doing what you were before. Don't even acknowledge it. Like, all of the people that pick on people have problems. They are no better than you. I've been picked on and i just ignored it. soon i learned to just block from hearing it. it really helped.
Tell your family how you feel when they yell at you to call friends(dont yell). If you dont do that just tell them "hello, i see them everyday at school...why call when we just talk every now and then all day?"
and about your sis. we all have sibling problems... calmly tell her to stop. if she keeps buggin ya just ignore.
and suicide!? NO way to go... just dont think about it. write down on apiece of paper what you are good at. you have friends, you have talent, you have a roof over your head, you have food. you are equal to every single student, lacrosse player, and sister that you have.
Just remember that- sorry so long i got carried away lol
Hope I helped =)
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(Rating: 5) Thank you so much. It did help :)
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