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hey my names kayla im 14 years old and im from rhode island i loovee giving poeple advice so go ahead and ask away! hehe
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Okay, I'm sorry, but this is going to be REALLY long.
I was at summer camp last week, and i went with a bunch of my friends. We were having oodles of fun, and there was this guy there that i have liked for EVER! He lives near me and i see him alot, but he has never acted interested in me before. Now, at camp on...Tuesday, during the night game he sat next to me (on a loveseat) and started to poke my knee. So i poked him back. then he took his elbow and dug it into my hip so i jabbed him really hard in his side....it was kinda funny. Then he took his hand and kept putting it on my knee. I wasn't comfortable with that so i kept pushing it off but he wouldn't stop. Then on Wednesday he asked me to play tetherball with him, i so won. then we played pingpong, and i definitly lost. Then on Thursday it got REALLY weird. First I was in crafts and he was in pingpong. Those two games are in the same room. He lost in pingpong so he was sitting down. He called me over and told me too sit on his lap. I did not!!! Then I sat next to him in the chair next to him. He asked for my hand and i said "why" he said he wanted to see somthing. So i held out my hand. Then he just started holding onto my hand and stuff. I was really uncomfortable with this. After that my team and his team were assigned to go to the pool togeather. So while we were at the pool i did NOT want to go swimming. He kept splashing me and trying to push me in, and i was in my cloths! Then i got sick of it so i just jumped into the pool, cloths and all, and dunked him. Okay. He kept holding my hand all day and stuff and on friday, I was really uncomfortable with it. Then on friday everyone in camp catchs him making out with this girl!!!! Now i dont know what to think!!! I dont want to yell at him or anything, cause he is going through alot of problems and he has always been able to talk to me about them and no-one else. So i dont want him to think he cant. what should i do!!!!????
hey,
He obviously has feelings for you if he is flirting with you and holding your hand and everything. Or atleast it seems that way.
Now, think back to all the crushes you've had. When you think a guy doesnt like you, you get upset right? Well you said he called you over to sit on his lap and you refused. That might give him the idea that you dont like him. Also, you said that you felt uncomfortable when he was holding your hand. If you felt uncomfortable he could probably tell by the way you acted around him. That also could have made him feel like you dont really like him. Anyways, what im getting at is that he might have been upset because he thought you didnt like him.
Just because they found him making out with another girl doesn't mean he doesnt like you. She could have made the moves on him and he just went with it. After all you aren't going out with him. Even though he made out with that girl i think he must like you if he was holding your hand and everything. Guys dont just do that to any girl.
well i hope what i said made some sense
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