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this is weird but.. how can a person be gay? like.. is everyone born gay and they discover that they're gay later on in their lives, or do they somehow become gay from experiencing something? i'm 14/f, and i'm totally straight, i really dont want to be a lesbian or anything, but is there a chance that i might become one when i grow older? (link)
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Actually, homosexuality is supposedly a chemical imbalance in one's body. It is thought to be the absence of the horomones that make you attracted to the opposite sex, which is a necesity for reproduction. You can actually see homosexuality as the norm because it is natural for people to be attracted to the same sex, thats why girls and boys seperate themselves until they reach the age where the horomones kick in. This is usually the time when people discover they are homosexual, whether they reveal it or not is a different story. So, if you like the opposite sex, and you dont question yourself about it at all, then you are not gay. But most people who are homophobic are afraid to be gay and question themselves, but fear rejection and being made fun of, so they hide it and try to avoid anything that has anything to do with homosexuality. So i'm pretty sure you ahve nothing to worry about. And for the record, being gay or lesbian isnt wrong. Whoever thinks it is should get over it and accept people for who they are. It's just as normal as people ahving different skin colors, so why treat it differently?
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