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I want opinions on this one. I'm 17 (almost 18)/f, my boyfriend's 19. We're both going into college as freshman, but we're going into different colleges. I heard there are dances at my school and I'm assuming there will be some at his.
My thing is, I really wouldn't feel comfortable going with anyone but him, but he'll be living like 45 minutes away from me and I have no car and therefore no way to pick him up.
He does have a car, but I doubt he'd want to drive 45 minutes to get me, run back, and then run me back later. (Though he did promise he'd drive over and see me every other week as long as college didn't kill him workwise)
Opinionwise - should I find out the dance date(s) and try to work it out so I can drag him, or do I just go alone?
Also, do I tell him if there are dances I want him to take me (mostly because I honestly want to meet his friends...and besides, he's a good dancer)? Would that seem too much like I'm trying to keep tabs on him? I trust him, and he knows that.
What do you guys think? (link)
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You should find out the dates of the dances and ask him if he's free to come to them with you. If he's not, just go alone or with some friends. If he is free, by all means ask him to go with you. 45 minutes is kind of a long drive, but it's not that bad. You could even offer to help him pay for gas for his car if money's tight. There's nothing wrong with asking about dances at his school either, just make sure you don't sound too forceful about it, though. You don't want him thinking you're his new mommy. If his school doesn't have dances or if they do and he isn't interested in going, you could mention that you'd like to meet his friends and maybe you could all get together for dinner or a movie some night.
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