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15/f *Ohhkay, so i have this amazing guy..but we're just reallly good friends."with benifits" I love him and i know he loves me and we've been talking about "doing it" i know we are both ready, and we will def use protection. But my question is..do you think if we actaully do it..we wil end up going out? I mean,I would love to go out with him, and ive always wanted to.
So do you guys think if we do it that theres a possibility that he may like me more than a friend?!

Thanks so much guys/I'll rate HIGH!! ;)

-kristen

Its okay for you to want to have sex. Its okay for you to be in love. Its even okay for you to want to be with someone. When you lose your virginity make sure you are already with the person, and you love them. Dont EVER have sex because you think you'll get a relationship out of it. Because then its not really what you want, you just wanted a relationship - which is highly unlikely you'll get after you have sex.

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