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Q: this guy i have been hanging out with said that he wanted us to be friends nothing more, but maybe in time we could be bf and gf. I was fine with that. i heard later (from a girl that i trust) that he had a girlfriend. I asked him and he denied it. i dont care that he has a gf...its just we have made out and done stuff together...now i feel like a slut. What should i do with this guy? forget about him or still be his "friend."
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Apologizing for the fact that you may percieve harshness in this answer:
Do you mean friend with benefits? Because I've never heard of "friends and nothing more" that make out.
He has a girlfriend. You made out with him. But the good thing is, that you didn't know! I don't think you should've done anything with him since you're not technically dating... but, you didn't know. That means that he is the one at fault, so don't feel like a slut just because he decided to be one.
A tip for the future: Don't do something with a guy that says he doesn't want to be your boyfriend right NOW, but will probably want to be later. The thing is, later might not come.
You can still be his "friend and nothing more" if you mean it LITERALLY. Seriously, promise me if you become his friend, you will do nothing with him! NOTHING!
(You don't seriously have to promise me. That's just me trying to trick you into leaving feedback. Mwahahahhahahha...)
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i promise you i wont do anything with him!!! i am just gonna be friends with him no flirting or making out.
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Love hurts. That's why I'm here to explain to you exactly what your significant other (or hopefully significant other) means, truthfully and unfortunately painfully.
In other words, I'm not going to tell you what you want to hear, unless I really believe it could happen.
If you don't believe me, well, I can give you proof. My way of thinking worked for me and my wonderful boyfriend of three years (I love you Matt!)
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Gender: Female Location: Maine Occupation: Waitress Age: 16 AIM: Member Since: August 7, 2005 Answers: 40 Last Update: January 2, 2006 Visitors: 4242
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