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Q: i like this guy
names dakoda choate hes 1 grade higher than me
i cant stop thinkin about him
he is so sweet to me
he flirts nonstop
he acts like he likes me
i asked him out
and he said: i really can't right now but i promise you i will get there i just have alot on my mind right now
so ok
i wait............ my friend asks him if he likes me not and he says:
look i like girls my age ok?
does that mean he only dates his age
he doesnt like me, he moved away from me, he just wants to be friends,


i think im gonna cry
what do i do about this?!
I apologize if you think I'm being mean:

You don't do anything, except maybe move on.

See, the thing is with asking a guy out is that no matter what the excuse when he turns you down, he's still saying no... some excuses are believable, but if he's being vague about it, and not apologizing profusely for it, then there's a good chance it's just a nice way of saying no. Next time let him approach you if he seriously wants to date you, if he doesn't then go find someone who does. (I usually give a guy about three weeks, and if he doesn't make a move, then give up.)

He sort of means what he says. He may seriously only want to date girls his own age, but it just sounds like an excuse to tell you that he's not interested in you, and doesn't want to date you. Harsh, but true. So now you're going to ask me why he didn't tell you the truth.

I'll tell you why.

He'd rather have his arms torn off of his body by wolves with rabies.

As in, he's a coward.

u r an awesome advice person

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TheCynic
Love hurts. That's why I'm here to explain to you exactly what your significant other (or hopefully significant other) means, truthfully and unfortunately painfully.

In other words, I'm not going to tell you what you want to hear, unless I really believe it could happen.

If you don't believe me, well, I can give you proof. My way of thinking worked for me and my wonderful boyfriend of three years (I love you Matt!)

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