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Q: Hey Everyone!! Well I met this guy a month ago and we completly fell for eachother. The problem was our age differences because I'm 15 and he's 20 so he decided that he couldn't be w. me because i'm too *Immature.* Recently I've been checking out his profile just to look @ his pictures and I came across his new GF!! I have to admit that they look really happy together and I'm happy 4 him but @ the same time I wish that I was his GF. I can't stop thinking about the fact that he's moved on so quickly and I'm still getting no where. I really like him but I know there can't be anything between us..How do I get over him?? Please help!!
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I apologize now for any harshness you percieve in my answer:
First of all, I'd like to tell you that you can't fall in love in a month. Fall in lust, yes. Love, no.
I have to tell you that you're right about the two of you not being together. At least, not now because you are too immature for him. You're 5 years younger than him, and you're a minor when he's an adult. If you dated him now, he could be arrested for statuatory rape, or something along those lines.
To get over him, you have to stop dwelling on him. Don't look at those pictures of him and his girlfriend. In fact, forget that he exists. Spend your time with your friends, at work, at school. Join a club, or a team. DO something, and eventually you'll find a guy who's your age, and doesn't think you're too immature to be with him.
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Hey. Thnx sooo much 4 ur advice and I know that I should get over him and move on. It's easier said than done though but I'm def. going to try really hard. Xo>
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Love hurts. That's why I'm here to explain to you exactly what your significant other (or hopefully significant other) means, truthfully and unfortunately painfully.
In other words, I'm not going to tell you what you want to hear, unless I really believe it could happen.
If you don't believe me, well, I can give you proof. My way of thinking worked for me and my wonderful boyfriend of three years (I love you Matt!)
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Gender: Female Location: Maine Occupation: Waitress Age: 16 AIM: Member Since: August 7, 2005 Answers: 40 Last Update: January 2, 2006 Visitors: 4241
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