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Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for a short amount of two weeks, and only two weeks. Last time I saw him he tried to touch my chest as we were kissing and I pulled his hand away and I got extemely uncomfortable around him that night. He knew I was too. Here I am a week later and he tried to do the same thing again tonight. I let him for a second then just stopped kissing him and got very quiet after that and just continued to watch the movie. We kind of have this joke about how I don't like my stomach so he was laughing about it and he kind of pulled my shirt up just so you could see my stomach just a little bit. So I pulled my shirt back down, but he put his hand under it. I laughed cause he was tickleing me too, but then he moved his hand up. I pulled his hand out right away and luckily my mom came to pick me up after that happened.
I live off the moto- "forgive and forget" I'm forgiving him, but it makes me feel really degrated and small that he'd try that two weeks into this realationship. He's really sorry and he knows it made me uncomfortable, but I don't know how to act now. I want to show him it's alright, but I don't want him trying again... what do I do? Should I feel uncomfortable?
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I'm apologizing for being harsh right about.. now:
He should've been "really sorry" after the first time he tried it. Don't forgive and forget that your boyfriend tried to grope you!
Not only did he put himself before your morals, he also showed that he has no respect for you.
How so? He doesn't listen to you. He wants something in a relationship that you feel is a long way off. He trampled your morals and will keep doing so, it seems. Forgive and forget the first time, but after that, drop the nymph.
I'm serious, don't be with a guy that doesn't care about your morals and has no respect for them (or you)... it'll just be a waste of time you wish you could forget.
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I apreciate your harshness, actually. That's the only way things get through to my head. Thank you
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Love hurts. That's why I'm here to explain to you exactly what your significant other (or hopefully significant other) means, truthfully and unfortunately painfully.
In other words, I'm not going to tell you what you want to hear, unless I really believe it could happen.
If you don't believe me, well, I can give you proof. My way of thinking worked for me and my wonderful boyfriend of three years (I love you Matt!)
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Gender: Female Location: Maine Occupation: Waitress Age: 16 AIM: Member Since: August 7, 2005 Answers: 40 Last Update: January 2, 2006 Visitors: 4251
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