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Q: I know you don't want to listen to me whine but really, I have noone to talk to. My boyfriend just dumped me in the rudest way. He made up this horrible excuse that his parents were mad at him and he wasn't allowed to have a girlfriend. He never even told me he was breaking up. Right after that, he put his away message up that said "Oh the phone with the hottest girl ever-Shea!" (Shea is a slut and really easy by the way) Then I imed him to tell him how much he hurt me. And he said, "Yeah whatever, like you would know what pain was. Who cares about you."

I can't stop crying. Is there something wrong with me? He blocked me so anyone who wants his screenname, its: pyroboy9977.

I can't believe this. :(
To answer his question, you care about you, otherwise you wouldn't be asking this question.

No, there's nothing wrong with you. You're upset, and hurt.. it's ok to feel that way. Don't dwell on it, just get back out there and find something else to do. Work, school, clubs, friends, whatever.

As for this Shea girl... don't worry, he'll get what's coming to him. In all likelihood, from her description, I'm betting it'll be an STD.

haha thanks

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TheCynic
Love hurts. That's why I'm here to explain to you exactly what your significant other (or hopefully significant other) means, truthfully and unfortunately painfully.

In other words, I'm not going to tell you what you want to hear, unless I really believe it could happen.

If you don't believe me, well, I can give you proof. My way of thinking worked for me and my wonderful boyfriend of three years (I love you Matt!)

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