My name is Charles. I want whoever is reading to know that Jesus Christ Changes Things. Jesus has made such a change in my life. How I think and see the world and everything around me. I love to worship and praise the Lord. I like to play football, and I sing(Good) too. Ima coo guy that gets along with pretty much anyone. So if you a coo person holla at ya boy. Especially the Ladies.
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Saw a waitress (shes 21, im 25) at local pub, big crush, five months later I'm pretty sure she likes me, never talked to her but she stole glances (as did i) so I asked her out for coffee, she said yes. I phone her the next week, she is ill, phone again a couple of times to hear how she is doing. The next sunday I phone her again, no awnser, 5 minutes later she sms me back that she has a boyfriend "but we can still have coffee". I sms back that she should just give me some time, decide to get over it.
Next time I'm at the pub she comes and chats with me (sitting next to me), and the next time, and the next. The more we talk the more I love her. She even tells me when shes working (I didn't ask). Last Tuesday i'm there again, chat chat chat. One of my friends drips wax on her hand and it comes out that she doesn't have any feeling in her hands, looked at her hands, her left hand, her ringfinger has a ring on, ask if shes engaged, she replies yes, ask how long, she replies that since a month back (the weekend after I first called her). Promptly ask the her to fetch us some tequila and toasted on her good fortune, put on the "Nothings-wrong-Im-the
happiest-bastard-here" act, drink alot more, enough for me to lose self control (not falling over or slurring-speech) and I tell her that I have liked her since the first time I saw her (17 February, 19-21:00) shes still working so she
away from the table comes back and i notice her eyeshadows is a tad smudged.
I go home later weeping and cursing, the whole week im a total mess, can't sleep for more than 2-3 hours, I'm a bit better now, could actually sleep last night thanks to some pills.
I don't want to see her again, but if I close my eyes there she is staring back, and if I see her again I'm going to fall apart all over again.
I don't know what to do, do I move to a differant city, country? do i try to break up a relationship that has gone on this long for a chance of karma biting us on the ass?
i REALLY need some advice. (link)
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I think you should tell her how you deeply feel. Say everything you feel when you are with her and how you feel when you are apart. If you don't let it off your chest you will regret it forever. Tell her how you feel about her. Ask if she felt nothing when you were together. Ask her how she feels about you, but after you tell her how you feel about her. If she gets married and doesn't know exactly how you feel about her, both of you might regret it for the rest of your lives. Let if off your chest so you won't be burdened and so you won't regret that you said nothing to her about how you feel. Tell her how beautiful she is and about little quirks she has that you love and about how much you love to see her smile. Tell her that if she were with you you would never want to see her cry. Tell her that if she were with you, you would make sure she had joy even when she is sad. Tell her you love her and you can't live without her. Tell her that whoever she is marrying can't love her as much as you can. There not married yet, but show her she can have true everlasting love with you.
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thanks man, even though i think she likes me, im willing to love her, and to love her now means to love her viance too (you get the meaning). thanks for the advice when i was really clueless. :)
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