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My older brother is living with us now. Im the youngest one of the family so i still live at home. Any way. Me and my dad use to go places all the time together, like, he use to take me shopping at the mall take me golfing with him and do fun junk like that. Now all he wants to do is shove me off into a corner while he takes donnie golfing, and everything else he use to do with me and my brother treats me like crap!!!! I am getting sick of being left out!! How Should i deal with it?????

i know it might sound childish, but one day while your dad is watching tv so siting by himself, go up to him and snuggle in his lap...tell him that you miss hanging out with him and that since your bother came,, you've been feeling left out...tell him that you understand that he hasnt seen him in a long time, but that you feel like hes completly leaving you out...suggest that you 3 go golfing together or tell him that you want to go shopping with him or that you've seen something new at the mall you like and that you want him to come and see it too...just to tell you, dads love their daughters more then anything else so its probably not that he doesnt want to be with you, its that he misses his son...talking to him will make you feel alot better and hopefully he'll realize that he shouldnt leave you out...

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