I am a Christian, and I love giving advice, so you can be anonymous or not, I would just love to hear from you! My friends tell me that I am a great person to come to for advice. I seem to know just what to say. I don't know. =) I love listening to people and problems. I just don't like being in the middle of them; I do choose sides if I absolutely have to. I want to be a Social worker or a counseling Psychologist someday. I am a senior in high school, and I start college in August of '06. I'm in band, and choir. I play French horn and sing alto. I have been through a lot with friends/family and even though I haven't, I feel like I've seen it all, so I hope I can help!
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I have this problem..My bestfriend was going out with this boy..Then this boy broke up with her..She was shock (i guess)..But okay, that's not the major problem..Now,I'm going out with that boy..and no one knows that except my sister..I've been going out with that boy for 2 weeks or so..now I have this illfeel..I feel that I'm so wrong by going out with my bestfriend's ex boyfriend..I don't know what to do..Should I break up with that boy and give him back to my bestfriend, or keep going??
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What's more important to you? Your friendship w/ your friend or your boyfriend. If you think you friend would eventually forgive you, I would tell her when you get a chance to sit down and talk to her as soon as possible. She may understand, she may not, but you also have to remember that if she gets mad, she might have a right to because you kept it a secret from her. But, there's also a chance she may understand. But my advice is to tell her because she has every right to know and I know how it feels to find out secrets that won't make me happy. Don't keep the secret any longer. Even if you do break up w/ your b/f she has a right to know that you dated him. I don't know your friend, and I don't know how she'll react but, I hope you'll be prepared right away. Good luck and I hope I helped.
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Thanx for your really good advice..=D
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