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Im really a down-to-earth girl if you really get the chance to know me like that, although many people don't know me like that and like to judge what they see/hear. i dont blame em cuz i have to admit i dont really give some people the chance to get to know me cuz i dont really care what others think of me cuz it is really pointless to live your life up to everyone elses expectations & i dont really tell people about my whole life because only my closest friends know who i really am and i love my true friends with all my heart..."It's not the ones who stay true to your face, it's the ones who stay true behind you back" and trust me i know who they are. i really have no time for the people who try to fuck me over or play games and i can be a real bitch if you have no respect for others and the people around you, i dont have respect for you and if you fuck me over or just are mean for no apparent reason, i have no time for that bullshit, sorry i just don't take shit from people after all that ive been through i honestly dont see why i deserve it...if you really knew me you would know where im coming from. im kind, gentle, sweet, and nurturing. i love my home to look neat and tidy. when people are nice to me, im at my best; and the nicer they are, the nicer i am in return. but i do have those days where everyone just gets on my last fuckin nerves. i might be a bit flirtatious even though im not meaning to be...i dont know, people tell me that. my tendency is to be extrememly loyal...i try to relax my mind as much as possible and im getting better at not dwelling on the past so much. i am a comfort zone for my friends and family, but i dont know how to say no alot of times...a weakness of mine. i try to keep myself from getting worked up when it comes to love...i think thats why im getting over things thats pointless these days (just like peole who arent worth a breath). i use my sense of humor as much as i want, and then i use it some more. hahaha. also i love to have a good time and just break loose once in a while..
Website: MYSPACE
E-mail: psdancer_6@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Milwaukee, Wisconsin
Occupation: Student
Age: 16
AIM: Phoebejadex3
Yahoo: Psdancer_6@yahoo.com
Member Since: August 3, 2005
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Hey.
Alrighty my boyfriend and I are constantly fighting over the stupidest things such as whos right and whos wrong. He hates Green Day but i LOVE them and when i got my ticket for the concert he got pissed at me. But i KNOW he loves me and i love him so much i dont wanna lose this. Our 3 month "anniversary" is in 11 days and im so happy with the relationship. But i think his trust issue is getting in the way. And i dont mean for that to sound mean cuz im not TRYING to be. But i NEED him to know he can trust me. Hes accused me of cheating on him with my ex who now lives in germany then felt SOO bad for doing it. He has had a rough time growing up and feels like he cant trust many people. What can i do to help him know he can trust me...with ANYTHING?
Thanks for any and ALL advice!!
=)
-*-Hanny-*-

P.S. SOrry its so long.=/ (link)
Sit down and tlk with him about everything. let him know that you love him with all your heart and you will always be there for him like you said you would and tell him that you know he had a rough childhood, but you can prove that you're worth it. and that you will be there for him no matter what because you're commited


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