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Q: Hey.
Alrighty my boyfriend and I are constantly fighting over the stupidest things such as whos right and whos wrong. He hates Green Day but i LOVE them and when i got my ticket for the concert he got pissed at me. But i KNOW he loves me and i love him so much i dont wanna lose this. Our 3 month "anniversary" is in 11 days and im so happy with the relationship. But i think his trust issue is getting in the way. And i dont mean for that to sound mean cuz im not TRYING to be. But i NEED him to know he can trust me. Hes accused me of cheating on him with my ex who now lives in germany then felt SOO bad for doing it. He has had a rough time growing up and feels like he cant trust many people. What can i do to help him know he can trust me...with ANYTHING?
Thanks for any and ALL advice!!
=)
-*-Hanny-*-

P.S. SOrry its so long.=/
You said..."Hes accused me of cheating on him with my ex who now lives in germany..QOUTE--- (then felt SOO bad for doing it.") Well have you cheated on him? IF not then , you should just be patenice with him but stress to him that if he loves you and cares to make this relationship to work out then he needs to take time to learn to trust you. Give him the under-insurance that in return your going to be patenice with him and that you'll show him your not cheating. As for fighting, STOP gee's.... discuss issues that arise into a relationship not battle them out, COMPROMISE... My bf and I have disagreements but we compromise, not fight. We discuse it out until its blue in our faces and reach one (laugh out loud) sometimes it can take a few days but its worth it. "When someone gets hurt and their sense of trust is buried deep, it takes awhile to surface again, you just have to be willing to take it on and do what you have to to help" As for the GREEN Day personally I lov'em and wish I had your tickets. You might want to explain to him hun I know your upset about the tickets, but We arent going to like everything the same, we both have to be individaul's. Maybe he could hang with his buddy's that night you are out. just remember... Honesty, Trust, Comunication, and Compromising is the 4 keys to a heathy relationship... (laugh out loud) at least from my opinion and experinces.

thanks very much!!

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