about

So, I'm a sixteen year old girl, and I live in Ontario, Canada. I LOVE giving out advice. All my friends come to me for advice because:
-I tell them the whole truth and nothing but the truth.
-I don't sugarcoat things. If your relationship is doomed, I'll tell you. I won't say "just talk to him" or stuff like that.
-I don't judge. Well, I do judge a little bit, but who doesn't. But, you can tell me you just had sex with 309573458346934584357 different people, and I'll still love you none the less.
-I'm just a normal person, and I probably go through the same everyday crap that the rest of you go through.
So yeah, feel free to drop me a line. As far as I know, I've never screwed someone over with my advice!

advice

ok this will be long but please help me out here....

Last summer my mom and I went to canada to visit her best friend (scince high school)she has two sons. we had a good time and stayed over a night. and then we left I never really knew the dad but i said hello cause he had known me scince i was born.
so we left and about six monthes later we got a call from linda thats her name, and she said that her husband had died and that it was a car accident and that he didn't suffer but we were all sad and i was too and i thought that maybe they would come to visit us but for a long time they didn't

Then about five monthes later she calls and says she is coming down with her kids who are ages 17 and 14, and they will be staying near our house and will come to visit us and im so scared because i wont know what to say and what to do. What if they start to cry how do i act what can i say to keep their mind off of the subject?

and what are good conversation starters i feel so bad for them but it will be terrible if i just come out and say it!

someone please help me ill rate a five for good advice.

Hopefully they'd have moved on by now, but it still may be a touchy subject for them. So try not to bring it up.

If they want to talk about it because they need some one to talk to, then let them.

But just relax, and make them feel comfortable. If you worry about it, they'll probably pick up on it. Just treat them as if nothing ever happened, and you should get on fine.

Good luck!

-Siobhan

[view]

(Rating: 5) thanx
<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
humorist-workshop
eXTReMe Tracker