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Okay here is the scoop. I have a friend "Tory" who is pregnant. She didn't tell me her aunt did because her grandma kicked her out when she found out that "Tory" was pregnant. Her aunt wants me to talk to her but I can't bring it up until she tells me. But then again I don't think she wants to tell me because It is like a competition thing between us in her eyes, she always compares things. But I don't look at our friendship like that. But anyways when she tells me what can I say to make her feel like I will be there for her, which I will but I still don't know what to say Please HELP (link)
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In a way, i think you should bring it up. Explain why you know she's pregnant and really try to help. If she gets mad, just say that you really luv her and you're just concerned and you want to help. If she wants you to always be there for her then part of that is talking about things that she sometimes doesn't want to hear. Like her pregnancy in this case. Just be there for her and that will prove that you really care for her. Hope i helped!!!
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thank u, this makes sense, i really appreciate this
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